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How Attachment Trauma Drives Anxiety, Autoimmunity & Chronic Illness

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Episode 128
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How Attachment Trauma Drives Anxiety, Autoimmunity & Chronic Illness

"As infants, we either receive the co-regulation we need to feel safe, or we adapt to survive without it."
- Dr. Aimie

Many people push others away while desperately craving connection. Others battle chronic pain, digestive issues, or autoimmune conditions that seem to have no clear cause. But why is this?

The answer often lies in unresolved childhood attachment trauma, specifically the experiences we had before we had words to make sense of them.

This is why someone can have what looks like a good childhood but still struggle with anxiety, digestive problems, chronic pain, or autoimmune issues as an adult. The body remembers what the mind has forgotten.

In this episode, Dr. Aimie breaks down the biology of early emotional pain and how it becomes stored in the body as chronic symptoms later in life. You’ll discover six core attachment wounds, why the body learns to stay in survival mode, how unresolved early trauma shapes your nervous system, immune system, and relationships in adulthood,  and most importantly, how to become your own safe person.

You’ll learn:

  • [2:08] Why babies need to be held to survive and what happens when they’re not
  • [8:45] How to recognize if “it’s not safe to relax” is your core attachment pattern
  • [11:35] The health impacts of early attachment trauma
  • [15:20]How fear becomes stored in the body as inflammation and chronic illness
  • [20:49] The six core attachment wounds that shape our nervous system and relationships
  • [25:30] Where the belief “I’m not capable” comes from 
  • [30:08] The surprising link between people-pleasing and chronic pain
  • [32:45] How brain fog, histamine intolerance, and depression can be connected to attachment wounds
  • [37:50] The three-phase roadmap to safely heal stored trauma in the body

 

Whether you’re someone living with unexplained chronic health issues or a practitioner supporting clients who seem stuck, this episode will help you understand the deep connection between childhood trauma, nervous system dysregulation, and adult symptoms and what it really takes to heal.

Helpful Links Related To This Episode

Related Podcast Episodes:

Episode 71: Understanding the Trauma Connection Between Attachment, Autoimmunity, and Fatigue To Find Our Way Out

Episode 77: Attachment Styles: Impact on Relationships, Health & Healing with Dr. Diane Poole Heller

 

Related Youtube Videos: 

Subconscious Parenting Needs: Healing Attachment Wounds | Dr. Aimie Apigian

In this educational video featuring an interview of Dr. Frank Anderson, you will learn how your partner cannot become the parent you need, the psychological mechanisms behind early relational wounds and how young parts” of ourselves develop to protect us from pain can make connection feel unsafe as an adult even when we desperately crave it. 

Guides, Tools & Resources:

  • Biology of Trauma book – how the body experiences and holds fear, pain and overwhelm, and how to heal. Pre-order now and, at the time of this recording, you’ll get over $400 in bonuses included! Those bonuses are only for the pre-order window which goes until Sept 22, 2025. When you’ve already pre-ordered it on Amazon head over here to receive your bonuses.
  • The 21 Day Journey – If you’re ready to create a felt sense of safety in your body then join me for your 21-Day Journey, a structured sequence of gentle, somatic-based self-practices walking you through The Essential Sequence to safely open up stored trauma in the body. 
  • Attachment Trauma Roadmap – Learn how your nervous system affects your ability to form secure attachments. Discover simple steps to rewire your nervous system for better relationships and overall health

KEY MOMENTS:

  • [2:08] Why babies need to be held to survive and what happens when they’re not
  • [8:45] How to recognize if “it’s not safe to relax” is your core attachment pattern
  • [11:35] The health impacts of early attachment trauma
  • [15:20]How fear becomes stored in the body as inflammation and chronic illness
  • [20:49] The six core attachment wounds that shape our nervous system and relationships
  • [25:30] Where the belief “I’m not capable” comes from 
  • [30:08] The surprising link between people-pleasing and chronic pain
  • [32:45] How brain fog, histamine intolerance, and depression can be connected to attachment wounds
  • [37:50] The three-phase roadmap to safely heal stored trauma in the body

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